My final this evening was at the extension at Inderkum High School. I had a high school kid try to holla' at me. It was funny. Here's what transpired:
High School B-Ball Player: Dang Shawty! I like dem jeans.
Me: Back off kid. Don't you know that I'm old enough to be your ridiculously hot and smart thirty-something-year-old auntie?
(Shocked) High School B-Ball Player: Oh my bad miss. I didn't mean to disrespect.
Me: Recognize, son. You should really try a more respectful approach with the young women. Ya feel me? Peace.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
He Makes Me Smile
Being HAPPY doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to look past the imperfections and accept each other whole-heartedly, with no reservations.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Tell You Something
"Tell You Something (Nana's Reprise)" --Alicia Keys
Get so caught up everyday
Tryna keep it all together
While the time it slips away
You see I know nothing last forever
Imagine there was no tomorrow
Imagine that I couldn't see your face
There would be no limit to my sorrow
So all I can say
I wanna tell you something, give you something
Show you in so many ways
'cause it would all mean nothing if I don't say something before it all goes away
Don't wanna wait to bring you flowers, waste another hour let alone another day
I'm gonna tell you something, show you something, won't wait till it's too late
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
Just a simple conversation
Just a moment is all it takes
I wanna be there just to listen
(I wanna be here)
And I don't wanna hesitate
Imagine there was no tomorrow
Imagine that I couldn't see your face
There would be no limit to my sorrow
'cause there's nothing that could fill that space
I don't wanna put it off for too long
I didn't say all that I had to say
I wanna take my time and right the wrong before we get to that place
I wanna tell you something, give you something
Show you in so many ways
'cause it would all mean nothing if I don't say something before it all goes away
Don't wanna wait to bring you flowers, waste another hour let alone another day
I'm gonna tell you something, show you something, won't wait till it's too late
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
Just lean on my shoulder,
It's not over till it's over
Don't worry about it cause
I'm gonna make sure our bond gets stronger
I don't wanna wait till the storm and something wrong and now you're gone and I can't find you
I wanna tell you something, give you something
Show you in so many ways
'cause it would all mean nothing if I don't say something before it all goes away
Don't wanna wait to bring you flowers, waste another hour let alone another day
I'm gonna tell you something, show you something, won't wait till it's too late
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
Get so caught up everyday
Tryna keep it all together
While the time it slips away
You see I know nothing last forever
Imagine there was no tomorrow
Imagine that I couldn't see your face
There would be no limit to my sorrow
So all I can say
I wanna tell you something, give you something
Show you in so many ways
'cause it would all mean nothing if I don't say something before it all goes away
Don't wanna wait to bring you flowers, waste another hour let alone another day
I'm gonna tell you something, show you something, won't wait till it's too late
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
Just a simple conversation
Just a moment is all it takes
I wanna be there just to listen
(I wanna be here)
And I don't wanna hesitate
Imagine there was no tomorrow
Imagine that I couldn't see your face
There would be no limit to my sorrow
'cause there's nothing that could fill that space
I don't wanna put it off for too long
I didn't say all that I had to say
I wanna take my time and right the wrong before we get to that place
I wanna tell you something, give you something
Show you in so many ways
'cause it would all mean nothing if I don't say something before it all goes away
Don't wanna wait to bring you flowers, waste another hour let alone another day
I'm gonna tell you something, show you something, won't wait till it's too late
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
Just lean on my shoulder,
It's not over till it's over
Don't worry about it cause
I'm gonna make sure our bond gets stronger
I don't wanna wait till the storm and something wrong and now you're gone and I can't find you
I wanna tell you something, give you something
Show you in so many ways
'cause it would all mean nothing if I don't say something before it all goes away
Don't wanna wait to bring you flowers, waste another hour let alone another day
I'm gonna tell you something, show you something, won't wait till it's too late
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
I can't wait, I can't wait, I won't wait, I don't wanna wait
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Looking Forward to the New Year
2010 is almost upon us folks. I have so many wonderful reasons to start the New Year off, especially one in particular. However, I will keep them to myself and enjoy it for a bit before sharing it with all of you. Secret for now...
It has been a year of transition for me. I am proud to say that I have accomplished so much in such a short period of time. I am well on my way to acquiring a second bachelor's degree, this time in Child Development. I still plan on going to graduate school, but all of this will come in due time.
I am thankful for all the love and support I have received from my family and friends, and some random acts of kindness from strangers in passing. I have completed an important life review this year, took inventory of my life, and resolved to change and heal anything that was unbalanced.
My experiences this year have taught me a lot about patience, love and understanding. I learned that patience brings with it all that is good and loving. I slowed down, took a deep breath, and got to know myself again. I knew deep down that I was going to be all right in the end. Now you can rest assured, that I am back to the same strong, fly, Optimus Pinay that you remember. I'm still as big of a smart ass and as sassy as ever. Look out now! Haha...
Most importantly, I wanted to thank all of you who have supported me through this chapter in my life. I know I suck at sending out the "Thank You" notes, but please know that you were all in my thoughts and prayers. It will double as a Christmas card this year. Haha. Sorry folks.
I am contemplating changing the look of the blog, just to reflect all the changes coming up in 2010. Just keep your eyes posted for some new entries.
Peace and adobo grease.
Thea
It has been a year of transition for me. I am proud to say that I have accomplished so much in such a short period of time. I am well on my way to acquiring a second bachelor's degree, this time in Child Development. I still plan on going to graduate school, but all of this will come in due time.
I am thankful for all the love and support I have received from my family and friends, and some random acts of kindness from strangers in passing. I have completed an important life review this year, took inventory of my life, and resolved to change and heal anything that was unbalanced.
My experiences this year have taught me a lot about patience, love and understanding. I learned that patience brings with it all that is good and loving. I slowed down, took a deep breath, and got to know myself again. I knew deep down that I was going to be all right in the end. Now you can rest assured, that I am back to the same strong, fly, Optimus Pinay that you remember. I'm still as big of a smart ass and as sassy as ever. Look out now! Haha...
Most importantly, I wanted to thank all of you who have supported me through this chapter in my life. I know I suck at sending out the "Thank You" notes, but please know that you were all in my thoughts and prayers. It will double as a Christmas card this year. Haha. Sorry folks.
I am contemplating changing the look of the blog, just to reflect all the changes coming up in 2010. Just keep your eyes posted for some new entries.
Peace and adobo grease.
Thea
Friday, November 27, 2009
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Congratulations to Efren Penaflorida and Dynamic Teen Company
I am so honored to know Efren, Em, and the folks at Dynamic Teen Company.
Mabuhay si Efren for winning CNN's Hero of the Year!
Mabuhay ang Dynamic Teen Company!
"Serve, serve well, serve others above yourself and be happy to serve. As I always tell to my co-volunteers ... you are the change that you dream, as I am the change that I dream, and collectively we are the change that this world needs to be." -- Efren Penaflorida
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Dating 101
So I haven't been on a date in about 8 years. I started dating a guy for about a minute, then I was just too much womyn for the guy. No worries. It was a good way to get my feet wet in the dating pool.
Feedback from friends included these specific requirements of what the ideal man for me should be:
1. There was a general consensus that I need a man who is already actively involved in serving the community, is conscious of API history and issues, and is just as genuinely passionate about it as I am. Good call everyone. You're all right on this one, I shouldn't have to mentor/babysit/hold someone's hand in this very important aspect of my life.
2. I am so stubborn. Even that is an understatement. I am also very headstrong. I have a lot of character. I AM a character. I am sarcastic and enjoy exchanging witty banter with my friends. Seriously, I crack myself up. It takes a real man to deal with these characteristics and qualities. Wussies need not apply.
3. I am REALLY smart (except I kinda suck at math. We're not going there. Maybe I have dyscalcula...). I'm articulate. I can spell. Ha. I'm really not going to dumb myself down for you, so if you're looking for that, go elsewhere.
4. I am extremely competitive and goal oriented. I think that's why I'm getting all straight A's right now and getting my second bachelor's degree.
5. I'm athletic and I love to play sports. Being physically fit isn't about just "preserving my sexy," it's just a way of life for me. Some guys can get really intimidated by that. I don't get it. You expect us to be ultra feminine but have a tomboy side, but when you see our actual athletic abilities and the possibility that we can back up what we say with real skills, you freak out.
6. I can be ultra-feminine too. I have lots of pretty dresses. Just because I own a Nike wardrobe doesn't mean that I don't have nice clothes. Haha. I clean up well.
7. I love my cat and dog. There is no either or for me. I love animals.
8. I have tattoos. Deal with it. They are very personal to me, hence that's why they are hidden from everyone else. I didn't get them so that you can find me sexy. I got them for myself, and no one else. Each of them are significant to me and tell a story. Yes, my friend Aleks is my tattoo artist. He's HOT and a nice guy to boot. If you're going to feel insecure about that, please don't waste my time.
9. Did I mention that I'm confident? I know my worth both as a womyn and a human being. I try to do right by others and be a good person.
10. Don't pretend to be interested in something just because I am. I can sniff out the fakers and pretentious people. Keep it real, fellas.
11. Kevin thinks I need to date a veterinarian or a fireman. Some folks think I still need to stay on my no-doctor diet. Haha.
12. I run, therefore I am.
Feedback from friends included these specific requirements of what the ideal man for me should be:
1. There was a general consensus that I need a man who is already actively involved in serving the community, is conscious of API history and issues, and is just as genuinely passionate about it as I am. Good call everyone. You're all right on this one, I shouldn't have to mentor/babysit/hold someone's hand in this very important aspect of my life.
2. I am so stubborn. Even that is an understatement. I am also very headstrong. I have a lot of character. I AM a character. I am sarcastic and enjoy exchanging witty banter with my friends. Seriously, I crack myself up. It takes a real man to deal with these characteristics and qualities. Wussies need not apply.
3. I am REALLY smart (except I kinda suck at math. We're not going there. Maybe I have dyscalcula...). I'm articulate. I can spell. Ha. I'm really not going to dumb myself down for you, so if you're looking for that, go elsewhere.
4. I am extremely competitive and goal oriented. I think that's why I'm getting all straight A's right now and getting my second bachelor's degree.
5. I'm athletic and I love to play sports. Being physically fit isn't about just "preserving my sexy," it's just a way of life for me. Some guys can get really intimidated by that. I don't get it. You expect us to be ultra feminine but have a tomboy side, but when you see our actual athletic abilities and the possibility that we can back up what we say with real skills, you freak out.
6. I can be ultra-feminine too. I have lots of pretty dresses. Just because I own a Nike wardrobe doesn't mean that I don't have nice clothes. Haha. I clean up well.
7. I love my cat and dog. There is no either or for me. I love animals.
8. I have tattoos. Deal with it. They are very personal to me, hence that's why they are hidden from everyone else. I didn't get them so that you can find me sexy. I got them for myself, and no one else. Each of them are significant to me and tell a story. Yes, my friend Aleks is my tattoo artist. He's HOT and a nice guy to boot. If you're going to feel insecure about that, please don't waste my time.
9. Did I mention that I'm confident? I know my worth both as a womyn and a human being. I try to do right by others and be a good person.
10. Don't pretend to be interested in something just because I am. I can sniff out the fakers and pretentious people. Keep it real, fellas.
11. Kevin thinks I need to date a veterinarian or a fireman. Some folks think I still need to stay on my no-doctor diet. Haha.
12. I run, therefore I am.
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